I love that saying that time heals all wounds, because even though at the moment when you don't think anything could ever make everything ok again - time surprises you and someday, it's true - it's all ok.
It's not like the problems go away...but honestly, are the problems ever SOLVED? I don't think so, except in Christ and those are different kinds of problems really than I am talking about. I'm talking more about things like friend and romantic drama. It's not like it will ever go away - you just kind of...move on. Lucky for us, God gave us brains that occasionally forget the bad. Sometimes we forget the good too - which isn't so good, but we can fix that!
There's always a time when you will be hurt and there is nothing you can do about it, except live and hopefully just breathe through the mess. Sometimes it really bogs you down and you feel like you can't even get up in the mornings. One thing that's always helped me in rough times is just going against those feelings: waking up early in the mornings, going for bikerides, turning off the TV and reading a book - basically putting all the effort into a life that would otherwise have been filled with non-action.
Like tonight - I wasn't going to go to the dance because I was just so tired of getting hurt by friends and fake friends. Now...warily...I'm considering it at least. We'll see if it was worth it or not I guess. Hopefully my friend is right in saying that I am the one who decides whether it is awkward or no. I'll keep you posted! But always remember - time will heal it. If not? Leave it to Christ.
Here's a song I accidentally clicked on looking for another one...hope you enjoy it!
-Kaylla
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